This was beautifully written. I think of Rick every day. Grief just hides in the shadows, waiting to step out and whisper, “Remember me?” I know how proud Rick was of you because you are a really decent person with a really beautiful soul. Hugs to you 🩷💕🩷
What a story, so beautifully written. It's so tough to have to say goodbye to the people we love. That poem and the fact he included it in that folder says so much about the type of person your father was and how well he knew you.
My father had been sick for a very long time before he passed, so we had had those difficult conversations, down to every little detail. And I must say, it made a tough time a little easier. So I absolutely agree with you that it's so important to prepare for these things.
Very sorry for your loss. This is great advice. Long ago(?1990’s), JAMA published an essay by a physician who wrote about two friends who died - one suddenly, in an accident, and one after a much longer period of cancer. It was about how preparing for death has a profound effect on the experience of the grieving families. Your father’s preparation and organization was not only wise, it was kind. He sounds like a fantastic father.
My nose got that twinge when I am ready to cry, the poem did me in. What you share is practical advice that unfortunately too many prepare for. Thank you for your guidance, even in grief.
This was beautifully written. I think of Rick every day. Grief just hides in the shadows, waiting to step out and whisper, “Remember me?” I know how proud Rick was of you because you are a really decent person with a really beautiful soul. Hugs to you 🩷💕🩷
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What a story, so beautifully written. It's so tough to have to say goodbye to the people we love. That poem and the fact he included it in that folder says so much about the type of person your father was and how well he knew you.
My father had been sick for a very long time before he passed, so we had had those difficult conversations, down to every little detail. And I must say, it made a tough time a little easier. So I absolutely agree with you that it's so important to prepare for these things.
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Very sorry for your loss. This is great advice. Long ago(?1990’s), JAMA published an essay by a physician who wrote about two friends who died - one suddenly, in an accident, and one after a much longer period of cancer. It was about how preparing for death has a profound effect on the experience of the grieving families. Your father’s preparation and organization was not only wise, it was kind. He sounds like a fantastic father.
He was the very best. Thanks for reading and for the article mention. Sounds so relevant to this topic!
This was powerful and moving. Thank you for sharing.
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My nose got that twinge when I am ready to cry, the poem did me in. What you share is practical advice that unfortunately too many prepare for. Thank you for your guidance, even in grief.
Thank you for reading ❤️
Thank you for your important and gentle words.
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Thank you for this thoughtful post. ❤️